Attitude towards people reporting on BTR
Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 7:45 pm
Having recently had a bad experience myself, I have been reading some of the posts on the BTR. I have to say I find some peoples attitudes and comments about people reporting bad traders to be frustrating and digusting. I admit I haven't been using this sight for very long but I thought the whole point of the BTR list was to
a. Warn other members that there are fraudulent trades and deals going on.
b. Pool information so the matter can be pursued further or at the very least prevent another member from being dooped.
Rants about nervous "noob" members jonesing for their "toys" and jumping the gun don't really seem to achieve either of the above. If you don't care about your "toys" enough to report when they are stolen, then send them to me. I'll happily put them to good use. What I find most puzzling is why anyone who doesn't have any usefull information to add or help the person who has been robbed would even find it necessary to make a comment. If you don't have a dog in the fight and you can't help out either party why not just keep your comments to yourself? It really isn't any of your business. What is the point in harrassing someone who has held up there end of a bargain only to be left out in the cold by another trader? If someone obviously hasn't read the forum rules and post information incorrectly the mods should handle it. That is their job.
I see tons of responses giving excuses why someone hasn't responded to multiple attempts to contact them. Everything from vacations, its the holidays and sick relatives to bad weather in their area. Really? Well why not add, they died, they converted to the amish faith and no longer use the evil that is the internet, or they were abducted by little green men. How about if you don't know them personally then don't make excuses for them. Speculation is just that.
And someone tell me what difference does it make if a string of PM's or emails are posted in chronological order or reverse chronological order they are both very readable and supply a burden of proof. My response to people crying about something so petty is to suggest they and the rest of the OCD crowd stop ringing their hands and rocking back and forth and take a pill. I mean seriously get a life.
a. Warn other members that there are fraudulent trades and deals going on.
b. Pool information so the matter can be pursued further or at the very least prevent another member from being dooped.
Rants about nervous "noob" members jonesing for their "toys" and jumping the gun don't really seem to achieve either of the above. If you don't care about your "toys" enough to report when they are stolen, then send them to me. I'll happily put them to good use. What I find most puzzling is why anyone who doesn't have any usefull information to add or help the person who has been robbed would even find it necessary to make a comment. If you don't have a dog in the fight and you can't help out either party why not just keep your comments to yourself? It really isn't any of your business. What is the point in harrassing someone who has held up there end of a bargain only to be left out in the cold by another trader? If someone obviously hasn't read the forum rules and post information incorrectly the mods should handle it. That is their job.
I see tons of responses giving excuses why someone hasn't responded to multiple attempts to contact them. Everything from vacations, its the holidays and sick relatives to bad weather in their area. Really? Well why not add, they died, they converted to the amish faith and no longer use the evil that is the internet, or they were abducted by little green men. How about if you don't know them personally then don't make excuses for them. Speculation is just that.
And someone tell me what difference does it make if a string of PM's or emails are posted in chronological order or reverse chronological order they are both very readable and supply a burden of proof. My response to people crying about something so petty is to suggest they and the rest of the OCD crowd stop ringing their hands and rocking back and forth and take a pill. I mean seriously get a life.