Ok, I got a question, and I want all of you great old traders to give some help, if you can. I know I don't have the most feedback, but I want to buy something from someone with no feedback. What should I do? Should I pay, and see if he scamms me? Should I ask him to send first?
Any advice would be very welcome!!!!
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- darkchampion ( 498 )
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I follow the idea LOWER references ships/pays first. It keeps things safer for anyone, as I would never desire to have to start over again. Nor would I want to loose the trust of any fellow gamers. That is how I ended up with my reference collection! I always follow through with my deal!
no way
I would require that they send something first. Perhaps a 50/50/50/50 deal - they send half, you send half, they finish, you finish.
I guess it also depends upon how much. Anything over $50 I would require them to send first. After all you have many more trades than them. Its part of the rites of passage, suck it up, trade with good people, send first and soon enough you'll have a high enough rating to demand that others send first.
Good luck and don't send more than $50 to anyone without some sort of protections like Paypal or the like.
Ekister
I guess it also depends upon how much. Anything over $50 I would require them to send first. After all you have many more trades than them. Its part of the rites of passage, suck it up, trade with good people, send first and soon enough you'll have a high enough rating to demand that others send first.
Good luck and don't send more than $50 to anyone without some sort of protections like Paypal or the like.
Ekister
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I had people with 0-4 trade refs sending first to me when I was as low as 10. I even sent first when I was new, to someone that had an 8. That's what I have seen to be the general "way it's done" around here. Now with a 40 rating, that's really pretty good, and as long as you're nice about the whole thing, I think it's up to you to help educate this newer person as to how it's done around here.
There's a lot of stuff that isn't written in stone here, and it can be a lot to learn. The more that the experienced traders help out the "noobs" the better the place will get overall.
There's a lot of stuff that isn't written in stone here, and it can be a lot to learn. The more that the experienced traders help out the "noobs" the better the place will get overall.
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MagickalMemories ( 832 )
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I would require him to ship first.
If he doesn't want to do that. Explain that you understand his point of view and wish him luck in the future.
Better to lose 10 good trades than get caught by ONE bad one!
Eric
If he doesn't want to do that. Explain that you understand his point of view and wish him luck in the future.
Better to lose 10 good trades than get caught by ONE bad one!
Eric
Lower rating? You ship first.
Give me a sense of humor Lord. Give me the grace to see a joke.
To get some humor out of life and pass it on to other folk.
I think what this situation needs is some imagination.
"...I'm a nerd, and I'm here tonight to stand up for the rights of other nerds.” – Gilbert Lowell
Want my help with a BTR or backout? All messages sent/posted should be in CHRONOLOGICAL order. Otherwise, I just won't read it.
Give me a sense of humor Lord. Give me the grace to see a joke.
To get some humor out of life and pass it on to other folk.
I think what this situation needs is some imagination.
"...I'm a nerd, and I'm here tonight to stand up for the rights of other nerds.” – Gilbert Lowell
Want my help with a BTR or backout? All messages sent/posted should be in CHRONOLOGICAL order. Otherwise, I just won't read it.