MagickalMemories wrote:Whether you agree with my decision or not, it is NOT a place to discuss it, per Bartertown's rules.
If you're making a "decision" whether a backout has occurred, then one presumes that it must follow Bartertown rules for a valid backout. The rules for a valid backout report require that the both parties clearly agree (e.g. "sounds good"). The OP has NOT met that criteria, as he himself states "Let me know you adress and I will get him boxed up and give you a total cost incl. Shipping.". If the OP intended this to be the basis for an actual deal, he should have worded it like this:
Please confirm that you are agreeing to pay $25 PLUS actual shipping and handling charges by sending your mailing address to me. I will then box it up and provide the total to you.
In the above example, the sending of the mailing address is explicitly linked to agreement. In the actual case, the sending of the address is only linked to "a total cost incl. Shipping". From a contractual standpoint, once the OP provided the total price, he made a counteroffer of $25+$5+ against the buyers original $25 total. At this point, the buyer told the OP that his $25 offer was firm and non-negotiable, and then the OP filed an invalid backout report.
Now, if you in possession of an e-mail, PM, voicemail, or evidence in which the buyer said "sounds good" or "OK" or "sure" in direct response to the OP's counteroffer of $30+ total, then please post it.
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gwaddict wrote:He offered to purchase the model for $25
I accepted, and as always I confirmed the particulars of the trade, as no mention was made of shipping and handling, I wanted to clarify his offer. So in an effort to be clear that I was accepting his offer at $25 + S&H I said as much.
NOPE. You did NOT confirm any particulars. If you did, you'd have something along these lines:
Sounds good. Just to summarize things as I understand them:
I have / you want:
{stuff}
= $25.00 Subtotal
+ $5.70 Shipping & Handling
= $30.70 Grand Total including Shipping
Payment to be via USPS Money Order. Shipping will be USPS First Class, with Delivery Confirmation.
As you will send payment first, then I will plan to ship against a basic timeline like this:
1. you send MO as payment
2. I confirm receipt
3. I ship & e-mail DC# within 2 Business Days of receipt
4. you confirm receipt
5. we exchange Feedback
If you mail the PMO by Friday (tomorrow), then I should receive it by Tuesday, and ship back by Thursday for Monday arrival. With any luck from the Post Office, things go "fast", and you have your {stuff] by the end of next week.
Please check the summary above and let me know if I've missed anything important or made any mistakes. Otherwise, I'll just need your address so I can get your cards boxed up and ready to mail.
Regards,
/John
*That* is how I do confirmations on every deal. If the OP replies positively "OK, sounds good", then there is absolutely no question whatsoever whether or not we have a deal, and what that deal entails.
gwaddict wrote:If he had not been in fact offering $25 + S&H he should have said.....
NOPE. He offered $25. Not "$25 +S&H". $25. Very simple. YOU are the one who tried to get him to pay more for shipping.
gwaddict wrote:His sending of the address implies his concurrence with my confirmation of the trade being $25 + S&H.
ABSOLUTELY NOT. You said that you would provide a total if he sent his address (which you did). You did not say that sending an address constituted blanket agreement to pay an undefined amount of shipping and handling.
gwaddict wrote:I fail to see how anyone thinks this isnt a back out.
Then maybe you should read my posts again. I outline the points very clearly.
gwaddict wrote:"I'll sell you any GW Battleforce box you want (valued at $90 or more) for just a penny ($0.01) plus S&H"
In regards to this point, it irks me as its suggests that I would be grossly overcharging for shipping and handling. Which I never ever do.
I would have charged Eric actual shipping, though the handling charges would be based on fair market rates for a Los Angeles lawyer working on a very small case for a client with an unlimited budget.
gwaddict wrote:"The buyer was very consistent in offering $25 for the model (shipped). The *seller* wanted more for shipping, but didn't get it"
The buyer did not say $25 shipped that would be a WHOLE different item and exactly how he should have offered. I did not want "more" for shipping but was clarifing his semi vauge offer.
His offer of $25 was perfectly clear. $25 total, no more, no less, no additional conditions. Your failure to understand a very simple offer is not his fault.
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gwaddict wrote:If you think you can buy a direct mail item for 25% off retail with free shipping and no sales tax then I wish you the best of luck.
The last time we looked at bulk internet buying, Maelstrom Games of the UK quoted GW to the US at 30% off retail with international shipping included.